Tuesday, September 01, 2009

Update City

Ok, so I planned on writing this hugely convincing defense of the Baseball Player, but that is just silly. I will say a few things for Alexis's benefit (so that she doesnt think I am any more of a raving lunatic than I truly am):

  • I ended up getting to see and spend the night with him the very next night after my pouty post. He was attending a bachelor party and even went so far as to text me all night coordinating with me perfect timing for us to get together, which, I imagine texting and planning to meet up with ones girlfriend continuously might be frowned-upon behavior in some bachelor party circles. But, holy shit did he look HOT.

  • We had a long and in-depth conversation about things that I really needed to hear from him this time around, and he established the boyfriend/girlfriend status and his intent on being with me long term.

    Some other things also, but I think that is sufficient. Things here are very complicated, and, as you mention, I have very little control over who my heart wants. Dating other people would be a complete waste of time and energy because Im pretty crazy about him at this point and am basically uninterested in other guys. Besides, I dont have the time or energy for dating multiple people right now.

    So, there you have it, Alexis. Perhaps a perfect opportunity for one of us to be telling the other "I told you so!" in the future. ;)

    In other news! I will be moving in with my friends Shellie and Dave and their son near the end of September. They have a beautiful house in the neighborhood and it is quiet and serene and I love it over there. I have spent weekends over there just relaxing and escaping my current living situation, so I am VERY excited to make that a more permanent setting for myself and Cash. Their son and my son get along famously and their whole set-up over there has the whole family vibe that I think will be more conducive to success in academics for me.

    Fall term starts September 21st. My first class starts at 8am. This could be disastrous. Stay tuned.

    X's and O's
  • 1 comment:

    Alexis said...

    Well that's all great and I rescind my advice! I knew I didn't have all the facts. :)